About Us
Ever Accountable helps people get free from porn and other unwanted sexual behavior through the power of industry-standard accountability. Instead of relying on filters or restrictions alone, we create transparency with a trusted accountability partner, creating true intimacy and lasting change.
For more than a decade, we’ve helped hundreds of thousands of individuals, couples, families, and organizations use accountability to overcome pornography, build trust, and develop lasting freedom. Our platform works on almost any phone, tablets, and/or computer, providing clear activity reports, customizable alerts, and privacy-conscious monitoring designed to encourage growth rather than shame.
We’re a team of designers, engineers, customer advocates, and mission-driven builders who believe lasting change happens in community. Every product decision we make is guided by a simple question: Will this help people live in the light?
Whether you’re beginning your journey, rebuilding trust in a relationship, or leading a family or organization, we’re here to help you move forward – one honest conversation at a time.
Our Team
Our Three Values
Each of our customers exemplify these values when they take action to live free from pornography. We admire that and try like crazy to live up to them too!
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We Do Our Job
It takes grit to fight porn. It isn’t the easy way, at least not in the short-term. But you are doing it!
Our job is to be your kind and competent guide. We work hard to be here for you.
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We Take the Long View
You fight porn today because you believe in better things tomorrow. You don’t sell yourself short.
We won’t sell out for short-term gains either. We will do our part to be here for you over the long-term.
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We Care
You fight porn because you care more about those you love than you do about your own comfort. We respect and admire you.
We will never take you for granted. We will go above and beyond to show our caring to you in everything we do.
Special Thanks To…
First, we give thanks to God for loving us, forgiving us when we fall, and for everything we have and are. We love You!
Thanks to our families for supporting us and giving us something to fight for. We love you!
Thanks to our competitors. While you sometimes give us heartburn, you also give us ideas and spur us on to do better than we could alone, and we love the mission you’re fighting for!
And last but not least, thanks to every person who is fighting to live a life free from pornography. You are the real hero here! We cheer you on and will help you however we possibly can!
Credits, in order of appearance:
- Tyler Patterson: founder, product designer, programmer, customer support, marketer
- Sharleen Patterson: advisor, counselor, encourager
- Dustin Davis: guidance and encouragement
- Jezriel Bajan: programmer, project manager
- Mia Bajan: customer support, QA testing
- Robbie Anderson: marketer, advisor, idea creator, advocate extraordinaire
- Matthew Cooper: marketer
- Lex Bangot: programmer
- Tom Sorenson: writer
- Katie Hulett: writer, advisor, artist
- Ashlea Patterson: executive assistant
- Catherine Tenajeros: lead engineer
- Heidi Patterson: executive assistant, writer, human resource, advisor, hiring manager
- Jaymar Somosot: systems engineer
- Aubrie Patterson: writer
- Mary Einfeldt: writer
- Amiel Barino: front end engineer
- Jonathan Woon: user interface and product designer
- Susheel Chanda: programmer
- Brian Swank: customer support, web designer
- Jacob Beck: leader, customer support, product designer, programmer
- Bobbi Rice: project manager
- Craig G: marketing input
- Michael Allen: leader, programmer, solver of impossible problems
- Alberto Cagata: tester
- Marianne Barney: executive assistant extraordinaire
- David Rhyne: product designer, Chief Product Officer, and Chief Operating Officer
- Anare Tavo: teacher, organizer
- Ricki Shields: customer support
- Micah Iverson: writer
- Jeremy Boyle, Ph.D.: recovery counselor, curriculum creator
- Josh McKee: programmer
- Brian Willoughby, Ph.D.: sexual development, associate professor Brigham Young University
- Julia Daniels: content marketing writer and strategist
- Iliesa Fonolahi: awareness and outreach
- Joseph Cañada: engineer
- Michelle Russell: operations and management
- Hans Bennion: product manager
- Carl Thomas: partnership collaboration
- Zakson Simpson: customer support advocate
- Pauline Yrasuegui: customer support advocate & AI image classifier
- Dominique Hunter: customer support advocate
- John Damulo: Quality assurance
- Greg Bainter: Recovery Group Moderator
- Rajat Mishra: Programmer
- Justin Price: Quality assurance
- Oleh Dolhov: Programmer
- Kostya Chupryna: Programmer
- Rogers Kagoda: Devops
- Luke Gifford: Marketing Director
- Paul Pasquale: data protection officer
- Richard Brown: consultant
- Danielle Yrasuegui: AI labeler
- An Nguyen: AI engineer
- Kevin Omiple: programmer
- JR Pershall: marketer
- Skip Matheny: marketing
- Beau Burgess: marketing videos
- Tony Ibraham: coach
- Austin Rohm: coach, podcast contributor
- Jay Coile: coach
- Tim Branch: marketing
- Elijah Bajan: quality assurance tester
- Michael Preston: product manager
- Sean Brennan: counseling partner
- Caitlyn Wells: social media content creator and manager
- Taylor Anderson: partnership & marketing manager
- Glicerio Jr. Tenajeros: quality assurance tester
- David Ordine: software engineering
Are you a world-class, top-performing engineer, marketer, or social media influencer? Do you want to join a team that helps people and marriages every day and has a crazy huge goal to do way more We may not have an opening at this moment, but please apply. You never know when we will be hiring! Tell us why you will do an outstanding job. Visit: everAccountable.com/careers
Everyone has questions.
We’ll do our best to answer a few of them here.
Shame, embarrassment, or fear often hold us back from opening up conversations about unwanted porn use. Choosing to use our accountability app nudges open those doors.
A better life - free from porn - comes with "unexpected positive side effects" says Cole (happy customer).
Benefits of accountability include:
- Safeguard in weak moments, knowing a friend sees your online activity
- Improved mental health as you make healthier viewing choices
- Proof you're choosing to commit to your relationship instead of porn
- Rebuilding trust in relationships over time
- Regular ongoing conversations about meeting positive goals
- Increased motivation and time to pursue your dreams and goals
95% of our customers say that they see an immediate reduction in porn use when they install Ever Accountable. In fact, most stop viewing porn entirely, and for those who want protection from a potential problem in the future, being accountable gives great confidence. This not only works, it is life-changing! If Ever Accountable isn’t amazing for you, we will refund your payments for up to 90 days. That is how confident we are that it will work for you.
Here’s what David, one of our many users has to say about us: “This software has definitely provided a sense of security and accountability right off the bat. I was surprised how it is helping to rebuild my confidence while keeping me honest with myself even when no one is looking.”
Ever Accountable does not share financial app information on mobile devices. But, if a banking website is visited, it is possible that some information may be recorded. We recommend using a banking app instead of a website.
Ever Accountable is the most robust accountability app that we know of. It was built by geeks who know all the tricks and how to block them.
Just don’t look for loopholes, because they probably won’t work. Even if they do work once, we’re constantly making updates (some of them silently in the background) to fix them!
By default it does not. The magic of Ever Accountable, the reason it works so incredibly well, is that it is built on the timeless principle of being accountable to another person. When we know that someone else can see what we’re doing, the temptation to look at bad stuff melts away.
That being said, filtering can be a great supplement. On Android and iOS you can turn filtering on at no extra charge. It activates safe search, so that garbage you don’t want to see is far less likely to show up accidentally. It filters out known porn, malware, and spyware sites. It doesn’t get everything – which is why accountability is so important. But it is nice to know that gigantic cesspool of porn is just not something you will have to deal with.
This is an extremely important question. Choosing a great accountability partner will help eliminate the urge to view porn. Consider these things when choosing the right person, they need to be:
- Supportive
- Non-judgemental
- Trustworthy
- Reliable
A supportive accountability partner cares deeply and know that it is a process. This person should be non-judgemental, honest and understands that no one is perfect. It’s helpful if they have similar values or have been through a similar experience.
Accountability partners need to be trustworthy so that honesty can flourish. Reliability is important! Accountability partners need to view reports in a timely manner and not be afraid to call someone out when needed, and have those tough conversations.
When we find someone with these qualities, even when you stumble, we “fail forward” and grow. We will have the support you need to succeed.
Your subscription covers ALL of your devices. There is no limit! We do this so that you and your loved ones will have no reason to not be protected on all your devices.
We support all major platforms including: Android, iOS, Windows, MacOS, Chromebook, and Kindle. Work and browse online with confidence, knowing that we’ve got you covered. Everybody has moments when we’re not at our best.
We don’t just pay lip service, but take your privacy very seriously. To our knowledge Ever Accountable is the only accountability app to be ISO certified in either information security or in privacy. We have both. That means we put a ton of time and effort into keeping your data safe. This includes things like top notch encryption, a dedicated data safety officer who reports directly to the CEO, and a thousand other details. Our systems are regularly audited to prove it. We did this voluntarily. You are accountable, so we want to be accountable too!
How does accountability benefit me?
Shame, embarrassment, or fear often hold us back from opening up conversations about unwanted porn use. Choosing to use our accountability app nudges open those doors.
A better life - free from porn - comes with "unexpected positive side effects" says Cole (happy customer).
Benefits of accountability include:
- Safeguard in weak moments, knowing a friend sees your online activity
- Improved mental health as you make healthier viewing choices
- Proof you're choosing to commit to your relationship instead of porn
- Rebuilding trust in relationships over time
- Regular ongoing conversations about meeting positive goals
- Increased motivation and time to pursue your dreams and goals
Will this really work for me?
95% of our customers say that they see an immediate reduction in porn use when they install Ever Accountable. In fact, most stop viewing porn entirely, and for those who want protection from a potential problem in the future, being accountable gives great confidence. This not only works, it is life-changing! If Ever Accountable isn’t amazing for you, we will refund your payments for up to 90 days. That is how confident we are that it will work for you.
Here’s what David, one of our many users has to say about us: “This software has definitely provided a sense of security and accountability right off the bat. I was surprised how it is helping to rebuild my confidence while keeping me honest with myself even when no one is looking.”
Does your app report banking information?
Ever Accountable does not share financial app information on mobile devices. But, if a banking website is visited, it is possible that some information may be recorded. We recommend using a banking app instead of a website.
Are there loopholes?
Ever Accountable is the most robust accountability app that we know of. It was built by geeks who know all the tricks and how to block them.
Just don’t look for loopholes, because they probably won’t work. Even if they do work once, we’re constantly making updates (some of them silently in the background) to fix them!
Does EA block all porn access?
By default it does not. The magic of Ever Accountable, the reason it works so incredibly well, is that it is built on the timeless principle of being accountable to another person. When we know that someone else can see what we’re doing, the temptation to look at bad stuff melts away.
That being said, filtering can be a great supplement. On Android and iOS you can turn filtering on at no extra charge. It activates safe search, so that garbage you don’t want to see is far less likely to show up accidentally. It filters out known porn, malware, and spyware sites. It doesn’t get everything – which is why accountability is so important. But it is nice to know that gigantic cesspool of porn is just not something you will have to deal with.
How does one choose an accountability partner?
This is an extremely important question. Choosing a great accountability partner will help eliminate the urge to view porn. Consider these things when choosing the right person, they need to be:
- Supportive
- Non-judgemental
- Trustworthy
- Reliable
A supportive accountability partner cares deeply and know that it is a process. This person should be non-judgemental, honest and understands that no one is perfect. It’s helpful if they have similar values or have been through a similar experience.
Accountability partners need to be trustworthy so that honesty can flourish. Reliability is important! Accountability partners need to view reports in a timely manner and not be afraid to call someone out when needed, and have those tough conversations.
When we find someone with these qualities, even when you stumble, we “fail forward” and grow. We will have the support you need to succeed.
How many devices does this cover?
Your subscription covers ALL of your devices. There is no limit! We do this so that you and your loved ones will have no reason to not be protected on all your devices.
We support all major platforms including: Android, iOS, Windows, MacOS, Chromebook, and Kindle. Work and browse online with confidence, knowing that we’ve got you covered. Everybody has moments when we’re not at our best.
What about privacy?
We don’t just pay lip service, but take your privacy very seriously. To our knowledge Ever Accountable is the only accountability app to be ISO certified in either information security or in privacy. We have both. That means we put a ton of time and effort into keeping your data safe. This includes things like top notch encryption, a dedicated data safety officer who reports directly to the CEO, and a thousand other details. Our systems are regularly audited to prove it. We did this voluntarily. You are accountable, so we want to be accountable too!